He likes me. He likes me not. He likes me. He likes me not. So does he? Although you can’t know for sure whether a guy likes you without asking him, there are some signs you can watch out for – signs that say he’s into you. So listen carefully for the 7 signs that say he wants to be with you:
1. He’s Nervous Around You
Guys are usually nervous around girls they like. Pay special attention to the most common signs of nervousness, such as sweaty palms, too much talking, nervous laughter, constant fidgeting etc. If he’s nervous around you, chances are – he likes you.
2. He Wants to Take Care of You
When you’re cold, he offers you his jacket. When you’re thirsty, he brings you a drink. Guys like to take care of the girls they find attractive. It’s what they do, who they are. If he likes to take care of you, there’s a big chance he’s into you.
3. Always Touches You
Constant, flirty touching is what both boys and girls do when they’re in love with someone. If he often touches your arm, moves your hair from your face, likes to give you a hug… well, that’s the most obvious sign he wants to be with you!
4. Shows Great Interest for Things You Like
He likes the same things as you do – same movies, same books, same music, same bands etc. You think that the perfect way to spend a Sunday afternoon is to read a good book and drink tea; he agrees, suggests a book and brings tea. You always say you enjoy a good run in the morning; he does, too. Yes, he’s showing you he likes you in a subtle, yet classic way.
5. He’s Around You… Always
Have you noticed he’s pretty much everywhere where you are? He’s at your friend’s house, listening to music 3 feet away from you. He was at the same party last Friday night, getting you ice for your drink. If a guy is somewhere around you most of the time, it’s an obvious sign that he likes you and wants to be near you.
6. His Body Language Says a Lot
His body language will tell you a lot if you pay special attention to it. If he’s interested in you, he will rarely turn his back to you; instead, he will lean towards you, look at you all the time etc. Does he smile a lot around you? If yes – congratulations! He’s definitely into you!
7. Spends Time With You
If a guy likes you, he will not mind going that extra mile to be with you, even for a few minutes. If you notice that he likes to walk you home even if it’s out of his way, he’s showing you he wants to spend more time with you. If he calls you often just to talk to you, he wants you to know that he enjoys every minute spent with you.
Aside from these most common signs that say he’s into you, there are probably hundreds more. Listen to your gut – if he acts like he cares about you, he probably does. But there’s only one sure way to find out; ask him. Good luck!